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So flirting with your friends girlfriend?

Respect your marriage and love your wife. We always feel more confident and daring when we text flirt over the cell phone, rather than a flirty conversation face to face. So my wife's good friend has been very flirtatious I think with me.

Now that he thinks of me as a friend I think , I'm regretting that I didn't try flirting with him before. The main thing is to make sure that anything that is discussed is stuff that could be said to anyone else. If you even suspect that he's flirting, you need to make sure he understands that you are not participating.

is friend's husband flirting? - Sometimes i feel that our relation is really great and sometimes i cant understand what he wants from me.

How to Know if an Online Guy is Interested in You As you surf the internet looking for sites of interest, chances are likely that you will run into someone that you connect with. If you have never had an online romance, you may question how you can have feelings for someone that you have never met. Once you get past this unsettling feeling, a new world opens up. Once you have figured out that you would like to date this guy, another important question arises. How can you tell if he likes you? Here are some signs that can help you tell if that guy you are crazy about is crushing on you! Sign 1: Spends a lot of time with you. A guy that is interested in you will spend hours of his time with you. You may play games online, visit websites together, or just talk until the wee hours of the morning. The more you chat with each other, the closer you will become. He will make comments that he misses you when you are not online and that he thinks about you all the time. He will also ask when can you meet up online again. You will also notice that he is making time in his schedule just to meet up with you. In between his school or his job, he will find time just to say hi. This shows you that he thinks about you even when you are not there. Sign 2: Cancels social plans. He stays home on the weekend to hang out with you online rather than go out with some of his friends. Guys are usually super glued to their buddies, so pay attention if he says that he canceled a night out with the guys just to be with you. He may also cancel dates with other girls just to chat with you or he may stop dating girls all together. Sign 3: Gives you a cute nickname. A nickname is usually given when he begins to think of you as more than a friend. Or he may begin to add an adjective in front of your screen name. This can include words such as sweet, honey, sexy, or lovely. Other guy friends may give you nicknames, but the one your crush gives you will be a term of endearment. He becomes protective of you when you are playing in online gaming sites. There are some scary people online and there will always be a few lurking in online game rooms. Your crush will stand up for you when someone makes a rude comment to you. Sign 5: Offline messages. He will leave you messages telling you that he is online. Or he may tell you the reasons why he is unable to be online. He may also leave you messages that tell you what his plans are for the day. For example, he may say that he is running to the store and will be back in an hour. These are all ways to tell you that he wants you to know the best time to find him online. He may also be thoughtful enough to say good morning to you each day or say goodnight even if you are unable to spend time together. This may be his way of telling you that he is thinking of the two of you as a potential couple. Sign 7: He begins to take an interest in your life. If he is interested in dating, he will request a picture of you. Most guys will agree that they need to be physically attracted to a girl before they will consider dating her. He will also want to know your favorite movies, books, and songs. It is his way of telling you that he cares about the things that you like. Sign 8: He introduces you to his friends. If you are from different states or countries, he will want to bring you into his social circle. It is a great way to get to meet new friends. It also gives you the chance to see what he is really like around other people. Guys that have a great personality will get along easily with others. If he is also able to treat others with respect, he is worth keeping. At first, it may be hard to know if he is being honest. The more that you get to know each other, the better you will be able to tell if he does have a girlfriend. Most girlfriends will not allow their boyfriend to be online for several hours at a time chatting with a woman. Never exchange personal information until you get to know your crush better. If you were meant to be together, be patient. Dating site is one of my fave app. Last May i met the man who i am looking for.. After two months i try to open hang outs to know if my registration there is still.. He is a nice guy he talked a lot i mean he chat all the things about him and i used to believe that coz i like him that's why our exchanging chat or messages it takes a month, but he changed after and suddenly disappear. I fall in love with him although i can't see he's real photo. Maybe he changed because i accused him that one of scammer,Yes he used my scammer and i refused him to give some money that he ask me I trust him so much i gave my email, i gave my ATM number, but he failed to do what he want.. It's a big lesson for me not to trust to someone that you only meet in dating site. And as days passed we bacame more close and chatting more and more. Then one day he asked me if I have a boyfriend. Then I told him that I'm single I'm still looking for a perfect guy. Then he asked me if I dont find him perfect. Then I couldnt reply to that. I started falling inlove with him. And we started dating. We spent lot of hours chatting. But now I feel like we are distant,he is always offline and I feel like he is not interested anymore. What should I do?!! Todd,i was lost in the world of misery,loosing my Man to another woman;he was my life,my love and my everything... Todd,my man came back 3 days after the spell was cast,now i believe in supernatural n metaphysical power. Todd's email: manifest spell cast gmail. He was really friendly and funny. I had met him in a Group Chat. When he pm me in messenger, I was really excited to know about what he is going to say. Until many days has passed, our friendship was really strong. We always chat for our problems and moments. But the feeling of our friendship was awkward because he said to me on the GC that he loves me. My mind was so shocked I just answered him that I love him only as a friend. It was really awkward because all our other members were teasing us. They made ship names. I quickly told that to my bestfriend, she also teased me with him but I was not convinced and just laughed. Minutes passed, he pm me and chat to me like nothing happened. It was really just awkward I decided to tell my cousin about it and her reaction was very happy and also teased me. But she said if he was really honest he would not be careless about it. In the end, I had feelings for him but I didn't say it to him because it will ruin our strong friendship. I've had my heart broken. A boy said he liked me... He had been lying about everything. I had sworn off romance. Then I started to look at my best friend on a different way. Let's call her Peggy. She's more than I deserve. So I realized I had feelings for her. Naturally, I fucking freaked. I had friends who were there for me though. It was mostly Engelica, Alex, and Laffy. So, I told her. She was chill with it. Said she didn't like me in that way. A few months later... I was freaking out. My crush was too big for me to handle. THE GAY NESS WAS OVERWHELMING ME! This was actually the time Engelica came around. So I asked her for advice. I said I had a crush on my friend. Engie had a crush on Alex. Eventually I told her it was Peggy. TO MY RELIEF, SHE SHIPPED IT!!!! So she dmed dear Peggy. I dmed peggy, deciding I would drop it if she said she didn't. I need help do you think this man is still in love with me? We have been chatting awhile now and feelings have formed between us. We are both married, my marriage has been falling apart for awhile now. He says he is also getting divorce cause the child his wife is carrying is not his, which he says is his managers child. He says all the wonderful things any woman wants to hear, the funny thing is I believe him cause he sound sincere. We have both fallen in love with each other. I have confessed my love to him and him to me. The only thing is I am finding it hard to believe him and I want to believe him. He has asked me not to believe the things people are saying on the internet, cause it is not true. How will I know how he really feel about me, by not sounding desperate or needy. How do I find out if he really does love me like he says he does? I know he must feel the same way I do when I tell him that I do really love him too. He wants me to leave South Africa and go live in USA with him. How can I really know if he means what he says to me on whatsapp? I know this sounds a bit weird, but he's like 11 years older than me. I first met him on a forum for a TV show we both liked. He sent the first message and we immediately hit it off. After a bit of back and forth through PMs we decided to switch to Facebook Messenger. We talk on voice chat sometimes through Discord, which is always fun. Made me feel kinda bad : Even after all this time, I'm not really sure how he feels about me. Not really sure how stuff like that counts. I don't think he would go into the other stuff because you know, I'm just barely considered a minor by my country's laws. But he always sends me music and has even shared a few personal things with me. He even wants to get me a present... Yet I know he just wants to be friends, at least for now big age gap, living opposite sides of the country. He has even told me about a couple other girls he was into not in a while but still. But through all the heart emotes and the hugs and the things he says to me on a daily basis e. I'm just trying to play it cool, roll with it is all. This isn't the first time I've been with an older man after all, so I don't want to seem too desperate and juvenile. Oy vey, I'm just so confused. We become a couple but one or two days later he became to ignor me i don't know why. He started to post like he missed a girl a lot i asked but he just said it is not important. We also use to fight alot our relationship is only a week and i think he is using me help me please if u can i m having a very terrible time. He then asked me to give my social media account username he then gave me a friend request ever since then we are inseparable he talk with me for hours and hours on social media!!! He told me that he thinks i look beautifull and commented that i look sexy lol but then he just went offline and i dont know why cuz he never told me. Before i sent my pic he and myself were so serious about the relationship he and me even said we waana meet and get maaried in a few years The other thing i am worried about is that i have told no one that i am speaking to this boy online my parents dont know they woulldd killmeh does anyone have any ideas on lies i can make up if me and this guy acually want to get married how can i lie and say i met him btw he lives in a contrey far away from me... Then after maybe about 2 months he called me annoying. I wanna know whether or not hes doing this because he feels for me or gave up on me? Right now i am chatting a guy for 3weeks now. But i'm not so sure if he is serious or what, i am not so sure too if i'll get serious to him too hehe. We wer both comfortable talking to each other, and exchange pictures together, and sharing ideas. Sometimes we don't talk for a day or 2days, but still we keep in touch as always. We both know we have our own things to do. He never forget to reply to me, i am always the one who forget to reply. Kinda hard to tell what he really feel.. There's a time he's been really sweet to me and i didn't mind what he's saying because i don't want to get so serious. And there's a time that he wanted to tell me something that makes him so shy to tell me. I think i knew what he was trying to say to me. But i won't deny that i started to like him, it was just that i was thinking that it's hard to be in an ol rel and LDR. And someone is asking me out already irl, which really makes me frustrated. I like this guy. We chat almost everyday during holidays and weekends, but when it's in the middle of a school term or something, we stop chatting mostly. He's the same age as me, and lives in Australia. I live in NZ and Ive always thought of moving to Australia after my studies. We've had many talks about the future and how we have to meet irl. I really don't know if he likes me, but our friends in a social group in the game that we met in, keeps on shipping us together. We ignore it and say shut up, but what if he really does like me like I like him? And we are both just leaving our relationship as it is? We are actually friends on facebook i know it's not safe but I've seen his family and all. Both our families are aware that we are constantly talking to someone online. We are still pretty young but I really hope this works out. He was the first one to send the friend request, then of course I accepted it. He was also the first one to send me a message. Then we always talked a lot about personal life, interests and etc. Almost all of the signs stated above matches him except calling out of nicknames. He is also a college student like me so we are both busy during school days. He leaves a message whenever he won't be online. He always tells me what happened in school, at home and whenever he has a trip with his family. And he was the first one that i consider as a friend, because in real life i don't have many friends and he is the only one who always lends an ear whenever i have some frustrations that i wanted to let out, because it was my first time to open up myself to a friend. I don't know but I think I already fell in love with him, but i'm not sure if he feels the same way like i have. MY NAME BASIL JENNY ITALY, THERE WAS A GUY I MET ONLINE, HE TOLD ME THAT HE HAS FALLING IN LOVE WITH ME THAT HE WAS GOING TO MARRY ME, HE KEPT ON TELLING ME SWEET THINGS. WITH TIME I FELL FOR HIM, I DECIDED TO DATE HIM, HE HAS EVERY THING A WOMAN NEED FOR A MAN. WE DATED FOR THREE YEARS AND SIX MONTHS, IT GOT TO A POINT I WAS EVEN THE ONE SENDING HIM MONEY. HE TOLD ME HE WANTED TO COME OVER TO MY COUNTRY BUT HE HAD NO MONEY TO COME OVER. I WIRED HIM MONEY UP TO FIVE TIMES BUT I DINT SEE HIM. SO I GOT WORRIED AND DECIDED TO SHARE IT WITH MY FRIEND MRS GINA SHE INTRODUCE ME TO THIS MAN CALLED DR EMUA SHE GAVE ME HIS EMAIL ADDRESS SO I CONTACTED HIM AND I TOLD HIM EVERY THING THAT HAPPENED TO ME. HE TOLD ME NOT TO WORRY THAT HE WILL BRING HIM TO ME IN LESS THAN A MONTH AND HE ALSO TOLD ME THAT THE FACE OF THE GUY IN THE PICTURE I SENT TO HIM IS NOT THE REAL PERSON AM DATING THAT HE WILL BRING HIM TO MY COUNTRY FOR ME TO SEE THE REAL PERSON AM DATING. BUT I DINT BELIEVE HIM, BUT MY FRIEND TOLD ME TO GIVE IT A TRIER, SO I DID WHAT HE TOLD ME, IN LESS THAN TWO WEEK I RECEIVED A CALL AT MY PLACE OF WORK, I WAS SHOCKED WHEN DESMOND TOLD ME HE WAS IN MY COUNTRY THAT I SHOULD COME AND PICK HIM UP AT THE AIRPORT. I HURRY DOWN TO THE AIR PORT ONLY TO SEE A TINY UGLY LOOKING MAN. SO I CALLED THE POLICE ON HIM AND HE WAS ARRESTED AND MADE TO PAY BACK MY MONEY. WHO KNOWS YOU MAY ALSO NEED HIS HELP ONE DAY. YOU CAN CONTACT HIM WITH HIS EMAIL ADDRESS dremuahelphome outlook. THANK YOU FOR YOUR TIME BYE. We've actually meet each other once after the 1st week of talking. It wasn't a date we just wanted to see each other in person. We still text everyday but he never mentions anything about going out, meeting up to get to know each other better. He will text me 1st for the most part then after a few texts back and fourth he will stop texting, but if I go online to chat with other friends or see what people are talking about on my news feed, I see him online, I just don't say anything about it. I'm beginning to think he talks to me when he is bored or is trying to feed his ego. Oddly, he told me after a couple weeks of talking that he liked me a lot and hoped I liked him as much t, how he wants to care for me and he wants to see where this goes between us. We'll his actions sure changed. We went from texting everyday talking about everything from past relationships, what we want from a spouse, life, family and joking around lasting for hours to the we hours of the morning, to a mere hey, how are you, what are you doing and no response after those things. It seems to be a waste of time to continue to converse with someone that judging by his actions must not want to hold a conversation or seems to only hit me up when it's convenient for him. I think the next time he text me I simply wont respond or waste my time with a mediocre minute or two convo only to not be replied back to afterward. Do you think my assumptions are right? He loves teasing me and making me mad! It gets annoying sometimes but i do like it but then he doesn't care about me as much as i do about him. He doesn't ask much questions. He doesn't know me but i know everything bout him. I wish he loved me. He said hi and we hit it off , it was funny i teased him a lot. His shy were both French so we talked about France. Only problem his in France I'm far away in the U. S omg his like well it was fun. He talked about parites , hobbies , and friends guys night out ll. I never spoked to him again cuz , I found out he tells all the girls the same thing as me. I nevered liked him as a friend ,i hate to admit i fell for him his nice charming and so sweet. Now he wants to talk to me again i stoped the whole convo cuz he lied he says i'm over reactting omg. Dunno what to think of him or anything , should i give him a chance or not? He swings both ways as well, And.. I just wanted to know how to get his attention. We've been talking for three days, and he'll fall asleep with me at the computer. Pathetic of me, right? Well, Anyway, I just want to know how to get his attention. The beginning of our friendship was a messy one and things have barely cleared up a bit. So we started out as friends online while we both were in relationships that were long distance 2-3 years ago. We weren't close then and we contacted each other constantly for only periods of times since then. We would usually talk to each other a lot for a few weeks and then stop completely for a few months and then something happens and we end up getting in touch once again! So we got back in touch around last year of August? And ever since then a lot has happened. I liked another guy during that time in reality but then fell in love with my online guy friend in the end? Anyways the thing is he was in the process of ending a bad relationship and when I told him that I liked him it was the worse timing of our lives. One thing lead to another and we started talking daily and got close. So here we are talking to each other almost every day for the past 7 months. We only take breaks when he's spending time with his family but either than that he usually calls me in the mornings and we talk throughout the whole day until we both go to bed at night. So does this guy like me? I've told him I liked him and I wanted to date him and be with him but so far he's told me he wants to hang out with me in person to make sure that we get along and he's at least somewhat attracted to me then. I mean I don't mind that but for now I'm just really confused at what we are. So far I've gone on at least two dates and he hasn't at all, he knows that I'm still considering myself single and I do go on dates when I'm asked out. He doesn't complain but most of the time when I come home after my date he would ask me a lot of questions on how it went. Also he always makes fun of me! And I hate it!!! Sometimes he even yells at me, well it sounds like he's yelling. Any who what is up with him? Does he like me or what? So, there's this guy and I've been talking to him for about 8 months now. We started off as casual friends, talking about various subjects, then the relationship between us progressed and now we can talk about anything and be totally open with one another. He calls me a cute nickname, is very protective of me and becomes easily jealous when I talk of FAKE guy crushes I have. He is constantly leaving me messages when I'm not online.. Recently, he asked for a picture of me, which I am slightly nervous about.. Does the behaviour he has shown me so far mean he's interested in me? We both have a lot in common and we usually fight because of religion, personal stuff, but its what normal friends usually do... Anyways, there was this time where he told me that he liked me it was last year I guess... I actually friend zoned him, but I do like him... We both live in different countries and I don't want to have a relationship with someone I haven't met IRLife... I check his youtube videos a lot of times, well not much cause he only got a few vids. There are some times when I don't feel comfortable with him because were far away and it just makes me sad... He is also kind of protective... There was one time when he thought I was stalking him. But I would feel the same way too if he were stalking me... Were still chatting by the way, its nice that he trusts me... I'm just one year younger than him which is not much. I would love to meet him, but I can't and it's so hard to tell if he likes me or not from just our chats. I think he knows that I like him, but he still comes back everyday to talk to me so that's good I'm glad he's not creeped out by my crush on him, but I'm torn. On one hand, if he didn't have an interest in me, why would he come back? I type long messages and he types one word messags... He lives in Italy, and I live in America, but we try to connect whenever we can, even if it's just a 'love ya' or 'I won't be on this afternoon, I'll miss you! I am now 30 but when I was 20, I had met someone that I fell hard and fast in a span of 2-3mths. The first time we chatted, we talked for 7hrs straight. Obviously, we hit it off. Anyway so we kept in contact, wrote letters, emails, exchanged pictures. After a couple of months of talking, we decided to take each other off the market, so to speak. Soon after that, we fell for each other. I was young, just starting my life, he was older in the military, already had his career established but that didn't bother me. We just had amazing chemistry and always put in each other in stitches from laughing. We had talked about me going overseas to visit him. I had my passport and everything read to go but something happened and then I wasn't able to. We were both disappointed but we didn't let it sway us. We knew he was going to be back home at the end of the year. We still chatted and allowed that time to develop an intense connection. Eventually, crappy timing, he didn't have access to the messenger like he used too. So we talked less than we got accustomed too. We still sent emails but they weren't as long either. So overtime, we had a lapse in our communication. I didn't really let that affect me until he finally came back stateside. He was now home. We still talked, don't get me wrong but it wasn't like every day. Didn't want the pressure to be there when we did meet. Again, due to an unfortunate circumstances, I couldn't go see him as we planned. That hurt like hell and I'm sure he hurt too. However, if given the chance to do it all over again, I would, even with what I know now would happen 2x. Life isn't fair sometimes and can give you a cruel hand. So sometimes on-line relationship can work, and sometimes they don't. If someone likes you or has feelings they'll show it. Prove it to you. Men don't process emotions like women do. They're more inclined to take things in slowly. Sometimes you'll meet someone and you click right away and you're practically inseparable. Others, it takes more time. Not the person themselves. Be careful, don't let yourself be played for a fool. Don't rush into to the arms of someone you meet on-line. If you like someone and things fall in place down the line. But do it slowly and cautiously. Yes, it's possible to find love on-line but sometimes in my case, fate plays a cruel hand. We are having our anniversary next month. He is so great and spends almost most of his time talking to me. He sends me sms everymorning and night to wish me well. He loves me and he calls me a cute name. Iam crazy about him. He has the cutest voice ever. If theres anyone there like us, plz hang in there. Online relationships really work. We always chat every week days excluding week-ends cause he has a lot of house chores to do, but i understands him. We always misses each other even we always use to chat everyday.. As he kept sending me friend requests again and again, i ended up sending him a message to stop. Some how we started talking for a few days. Later on he told me how he doesn't use facebook either and will be deactivating it soon and asked me to add him on msn as he was on from facebook for soo many days because of me. After talking to him he seemed like a nice and decent guy, i then thought of adding him. We talked on msn for almost a 8 months, and became such good friends in such a short period of time. He told me about himself, his family, friends, dislikes, likes etc... Then he asked me if it was ok, if he could text me and asked me for my number and i then gave it to him. We texted eachother but never called. Anyways, we some how arranged a day and planned on spending some time together and before meeting me he asked me if it was ok if he could kiss me. When i asked why, he was like who wouldn't want to kiss you. I kept on making excuses on not to kiss him. I even told him i would only kiss one guy and that'll be the one whom i marry. I even told him i never kissed a guy before or let anyone and he was like i'll teach you. Lol that was really sweet i wish i could learn but then my ego kept telling my heart to say no. At first i thought of saying yes but then i just said it depends on the moment. I also told him we will meet but that will be the first and last time. After that we wont see eachother. After that we still chatted and texted and he asked me if we could meet again but for some reason i had to go out of town, i told him if God wishes we'll meet again. Now since im in a different place he can't reply to my texts and he told me why and i completely understand why he can't. But even if i text him he replys on msn as we still talk there. So not to worry. Then, i don't know he said something that caused me to ask him whether he misses me and we laughing and all and he was like i don't have an answer and im like why, just tell me whether u do or not. And then he's like u think whatever you want, what do u think. And its been days i haven't got my answer and he's not even coming online. I don't know what's wrong, was my question stupid or does he not want to tell me. I know he's busy these days as he told me but why isn't he talking to me? What do u think? We play an online game together on facebook. Started talking and he sent me a friend request. He wanted me to give him my number. But at the time I was not ready just to give it to him since we had just met. So I waited for little over a month to give it to him. He has done all the things that you have listed. We have a lot in common too. His family lives in the same state as me. But he lives in TN. Whenever we talk its like we have know each other for a long time even though we have not. I don't know what think can you help me? I started talking with him again and he was suppose to come see me but did the same thing! He didn't call me its like 2 days before he was suppose to come he started talking really crazy to me! I don't understand why he liked talking with me on the phone for several hours and we would text a lot? Why is he acting like this he has to be hiding something I just don't no what though help? I met him there, and we hit it off instantly. We sent emails back and forth, but I figured that everyone did this on sites like that. Anyway, we both ended up quitting the site for our own reasons, and we began to talk on MSN messenger. Our conversations became more frequent, but we never touched on too personal of questions. I found it extremely easy to talk to him, and I felt like he actually listened to me unlike most of the guys that I know in real life. I don't know if this is how most guys act online, but I enjoyed the conversations regardless. About a year later I lost my internet, and the computer which had MSN messenger downloaded. A year or so later, I came back online, and added him to a new MSN messenger screen name where we picked up with our conversations once again. At the time he lived several states away, even though when we first started talking he lived in the same city as me. Well, just recently I found out that he is moving back to the city that I live in. His family lives here, and he is going to stay with them, but it complicates things for me because I had started to get a crush on him over the last couple of months. I told myself that it wouldn't be too bad because he lived so far away, but now that he is moving back it makes it more difficult. It's very hard for me to tell if he only likes me as a good friend or if he could possibly be romantically interested in me. I feel like I'm not really his 'type', if that makes sense, due to the fact that I'm only twenty and he is twenty-eight. I'm nervous because I don't want to ruin our friendship, and assume that he likes me as more then a friend, but at the same time I don't want to push away subtle signs as friendship, and lose out on a great opportunity. He normally talks to me within a few minutes of me signing on, and he uses smiley faces like he is happy to see me, but I don't know if he talks to a lot of girls like this or not. We have never met in person, but he asked me to hang out with him a lot when he was back for a week. He is back in the state he used to live in to tie things up, but when he gets back I'm planning on meeting him. I don't know what signs to look for, and I'm really nervous, but I'm sure that things will be fine. I'm in a complicated situation in where I like him as more then a friend, but I'm not sure if he feels the same way.. I'm sure that a lot of girls like him, too, so why would he be interested in me? Anyway, wish me luck, guys! We liked each other and when I came clean so did he.. We took a break for about 6 months and then came back. I still like him ht as Learned the past he doesn't show his feelings easily... It's not exactly a private site, we're in a chat room with a few other users. This chat room is about a topic that we all enjoy, it's a TV show. He hits on me a lot, and just today he got really jealous when I was joking around and told him I liked another guy which I don't, I've liked him since January. The only negative things are that he uses a lot of sarcasm about me, flirts with two other girls that I hate, and we argue sometimes calling each other names, insults etc. Last night he told me I was really hot he's seen a picture of me , but I'm not sure he meant it, because he called another girl hot on a separate occasion. So, do you think he likes me? We hit it off or so i thought and he even introduced me to his brother and told me all about my family, even insisting i come live with him. Eventually I found out he was full of shit and even though I had stopped talking and cybering with other guys we continued to seek out other girls. I went to his brother and told him my problem and he was furious, he told me that he didn't deserve me and that it disgusted him to see me with him. And then he told me that he was the one who loved me and i realized that it was true. I am now dating the brother and have been for about six months now. He lives in Scotland, I in the US and I have yet to meet him.. Next summer he is coming here and I hope we get it all figured out. But it's hard being so separate constantly. We met on IMVU. He always calls me baby or sexy. When I start to put myself don't he quickly disagrees with me. I've met a few of his friends online. When my computer stopped working twice, he still sent emails here and there asking was I okay. He asked about me sending a picture. I couldn't so he sent me a picture. No how long we are far apart we always ask if the other okay and am sorrys come flying out The only problem is he is five years older then me and am just seventeen. We want to meet soon, but I don't know how to explain how I met him to my mom. The problem being I just met one man I really liked his nothing handsome,however I thought we had a connection he was taken by my photo's and we had been sending emails. With his comments of 'what I thought was developing into something more,then now I don't hear from him. His in his 40's for god sake 'grow up'! If I'm so popular and beautiful,then why is this happening to me,I've lost faith in these online dating services! I then saw him buying a drink for someone i know but she was getting guys to buy her drinks all night long. I texted him a couple of days after and we started talking. We talked non-stop for the whole night and then three nights after that. I still feel bad for not letting him buy me a drink. I want to tell him i like him but the only way we can communicate is by text. Should i do it? If you recently met him, and he's already talking about sex, then be very careful. Most guys who truly liked someone would try not to offend you or give you reason to run. Again, my guy didn't even attempt it until well over a year into our relationship... Now, I'm not a guy, I am pretty sure about everything I just said. If I were you I would definitely be very concerned and uncomfortable with him and his sexual talk soo early on. Honestly, this does not sound like he even qualifies for potential husband. If you were me, you would take his application and throw it in the garbage. One also has to ponder how he is in real life. With my guy, I knew he got turned on a lot but he didn't make a big deal out of it. Then one time we were talking about something related to reproduction but not sexual talk , and he got aroused for to say and he asked me for my permission to do something cyber sex. I politely declined telling him I didn't feel right about it. Note, this was over a year into our relationship! He was ok with me not wanting to have cyber sex and he acted like a really polite gentleman about it and he didn't push it either. That was the first and last time he asked. I once asked him how often do guys think sexually~he responded by saying all the time if we are not busy. If the sexual stuff bothers you just tell him about it; if he truly likes you he will both understand and stop it. We started out as just friends, then we talked more and we grew to the point of falling in love. Before this, I never understood why people dated online, vowed that I would never do so. But then he came along and changed my view, or at least I made a special exception for him because having him seemed better than not. He started to like me before I did him, I could tell before he even told me directly that he liked me. He would come online just for me, wait for me online. When we talked, we often talked for a long time and hated having to leave. He would sometimes leave me offline messages. Eventually he gave me a nickname, and then we came up with one for him. After knowing him a long time he asked for my number, I wasn't ready yet, he was ok with that and instead gave me his. I never called him. We still talked, then I started falling for him. I still hold back a little though as I know this is online and that if it doesn't work out that I won't be too badly damaged, but I hope for the best. We started talking about a future together. A few months later he gave me his address, and I did write him a letter. After he got it he wanted to write me a letter, but he didn't ask for it but implied it. I gave it to him. He then asked me for my phone number again, I gave it to him, but it didn't work. I showed him a picture of me; he seen it when I was offline and he left me a message telling me to come online and how happy he was. I eventually came online and we talked again. I waited the following weekend for him to come online, he never did. A week later a full week of not talking to each other he left me a message saying he misses me and asks when we could talk, I replied. We live in different countries so our time zons are different and hard to find time to talk, but weekends generally work well for both of us. The next weekend I wait for hom to come online, thinking that if he really wanted to talk to me he would, he never came online. Now, I don't know if he still likes me. His message of missing me confuses me now as I don't understand because I don't know why he doesn't come online during the weekend. Past weekends I would come online when I woke up and it would be night time for him, so we both could easily talk. Now, my heart is breaking and I don't know what to think. I don't want to miss out on a great guy but yet I can't keep living my live waiting for him to come online. I don't know if I should break things off or not if I do it would only be because of the not talking much. We always let each other know when we are going to class or going to do something. It's diff with him from other guys I have chat with online,he tells me how he wants an take me in dates and rush home just to talk to me. He always IM me good morning , we both stay on on IM in case we are thinking about each ogre and want to chat. O mean he is a guy and have needs , us that normal though?! I really like him and hope to continue chatting , we are talking about him coming down to see me during winter break. I can't imagine why he has suddenly stopped contact,neither has he been replying to my offlyn messages on yahoo nor has he till now replied to the message i sent him on facebook yesterday... I had asked him to let me know if he didn't want any further contact he shud let me know,but there has been absolutely no messages from him... We started talking on msn and texting each other whenever he had the time because he is busy with work. We met up a few times and had a lot of fun just talking to each other. I thought he was really into me because of his body languange and he would always want to hold hands and get a few kisses whenever he could. Last time we hung out was this Wednesday and we fooled around a bit more than usual in his car. But after I only received a few texts and he is making it seem like he doesn't get my texts but all my other friends are receiving my texts. Now, when he get back to work, he made sure that he get into msn everyday. We almost talk about everything home, work and life issues. He told me that he likes everyting about me and he knows that he is the kind of person that i dream of. Soemtimes i feel that he is really intreseted with me and he wants our relation to progress and sometimes i feel that i am just a friend of him. I really like him and love to talk with him. I really get upset when i am not talking to him and get afraid of losing him because i feel that he is teh perfect man for me. But this is sometimes make me feel that he is not intrested in me that much. Sometimes i feel that our relation is really great and sometimes i cant understand what he wants from me. I feel sometimes that i am pushing him a lot to progress in the relation. I really that we progress in teh relation. Im actually going back thr this 2011 and were planning to meet up, and his always talking abt. I met a wonderful guy online recently; we've a lot in common but my intuition keeps nagging me... Let your life's lessons, intuition and self-respect navigate the course of your relationship.... I met this guy on wow over 2 years ago, at first I was kind of anxious to talk to him but now whenever I'm online we talk about something, usually it's stuff to do with real life, music, classes, etc. We are both in University , and there have been many cases recently where we have talked on Ventrilo for hours until very late at night. I'm not the prettiest girl out there so I was quite nervous about showing him my photo and he really didn't say much, so this is really making me anxious. At the same time he is still the sweetest guy and I recently went to a movie and he said he wished he was able to go with me. The only problem is we both live in different countries but he's no too far away. I'm not sure if I realy like this guy though but I know he realy likes me. I haven't gathered up the courage to show him a picture... I used to talk to him all the time. We would both talk on msn for hours.... I really like him but the thing is, he's taken.. But his girlfriend is an online girlfriend. We both met on New Years Eve. I was invited to a conversation, and decided to add him.. A couple of days went by, and we started talking a lot about things. We were getting really close... He said that I was flawless and amazing.. And said that any guy that went out with me, would be lucky. He even wrote a poem about me. I know his favourite songs, books, movies.. The fact that he's a terrible dancer.. She'll never see him like I do... She'll never love like I do. I have a picture of him in my special box under my bed. Yeah, I know that sounds kinda creepy, but I love him so much, but he doesn't love me.... He'll never understand the pain I'm going through. I love a guy online, and it's slowly killing me. I met a guy recently on Okcupid. Please help me find out if he really has a thing for me. So, we've known each other for a long time, but I'm not sure if he likes me or if he just thinks of me as his best friend. The list that you gave here all applies to him. The thing is, I think he might've liked me when I didn't like him, and I steered myself into the 'friend zone' unknowingly. Now that he thinks of me as a friend I think , I'm regretting that I didn't try flirting with him before. I'm also friends with his cousin and best friend, they like me as well... I've seen a picture of him and i think he seen a picture of me too. He would tell me the reason to why he couldn't go on. He remembers what my fave books, movies etc. He's only 3 months older than me, which isn't a lot. My friends all like him as well and think he's a perfect match for me. I really like him and he said that he really likes me too, he would try to change his schedule and he said that he feels like he could talk to me forever. I'm kinda jealous when other girls talk to him and he gets jealous as well when i talk to other guys. I want to meet him in person but the only problem is that we live in different countries. I've been playing SL and found someone who I've adored and we both talk out of the game on Skype. The thing is I'm married, He has a girlfriend and a son and we are infatuated with each other. I've cut off the connection between us because my marriage started to fall apart. An online relationship in a game can mentaly screw you up only If you don't know what your doing and only base the relationship on feelings, which aren't always true. The pain I feel inside from leaving him hurt like black tar was being poured on my heart. But it had to be done because I had to believe that my husband is my one and only even if I married 17yrs old.. Now five years later I'm thinking of leaving him, but that's not happening. So in the end, be careful for who fall in love with in a game, it will ruin any current relationship you have in real life. I've been playing SL and found someone who I've adored and we both talk out of the game on Skype. The thing is I'm married, He has a girlfriend and a son and we are infatuated with each other. I've cut off the connection between us because my marriage started to fall apart. An online relationship in a game can mentaly screw you up only If you don't know what your doing and only base the relationship on feelings, which aren't always true. The pain I feel inside from leaving him hurt like black tar was being poured on my heart. But it had to be done because I had to believe that my husband is my one and only even if I married 17yrs old.. Now five years later I'm thinking of leaving him, but that's not happening. 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